We ask “Why am I hurt?” or “Why is this happening to me?” But, these questions do not lead to action points that will nudge us along the healing path. Self-pity, self-loathing, self-righteous justification of my own resentment and my denial of how poorly I love others do not lead to creative ways to heal.

How is it that we can live our lives and react to external circumstances completely unaware of the feelings, thoughts, or even the origins of those reactions?

On our way to healing, we men are confronted by many issues that make our journey unique. Among those issues, we encounter difficulty (for whatever reasons) reflecting on our own behaviors and motivations.

I’ve finally begun to tell my story to whoever will listen….

Do men really need unique help to heal from their toxic mother’s wounds? Men insulate and isolate themselves in many ways, which indicates a need for gender-specific solutions and advice.

Welcome to my website’s blog! I have posted these blogs and curated content commentaries to teach and learn, challenge and be challenged, and ultimately continue growing into the person you want to become. In each blog post, you will learn a small concept from my book but much more deeply.